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Help for Pastoral Leads

A Teacher Leaving Feels Like a Bereavement for Children

Billy was one of my most challenging cases. He was 8 years old when his Head Teacher referred him for play therapy because of his angry meltdowns. On the surface, Billy was angry about leaving his teacher to move up to the next year.  During his therapy it emerged Billy

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Child Grief

Three Tasks of Child Grief

Erna Furman (author of A Child’s Parent Dies) says that the bereaved child has a threefold task: 1/ to cope with the immediate impact of the circumstances, 2/ to grieve, and 3/ to resume and continue his emotional life in harmony with his level of maturity. None of these tasks

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Help for families

Grief on Mother’s Day

Mother’s Day can be hard for those bereaved of a mother, grandmother as well as those bereaved of a child. This National day can also be tough for: – New mums. – Those desperate to be Mums. -Those Mums with broken hearts. -Those that don’t have a relationship with their

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Help for families

Build Secure Attachment Through Play

Whenever a child is faced with the loss of parent, the ability to survive the emotional and physical pain is influenced by their secure attachments to significant others. According to grief expert Colin Murray-Parkes, the way a child grieves is determined by their attachment style. If the child has an

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Help for families

Accept Your Child Exactly As They Are

Learning to accept your child exactly as they are is a crucial skill to build a warm, empathic relationship. It will also get you out of a sticky spot! You will recognise a sticky spot because it will prompt you to want to comfort, rescue, fix, change, intervene. Instead, all

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Help for families

Supporting Bereaved Children to Find Their Smile Again

A child loses a parent every twenty-two minutes in the UK. That’s 1 child in every classroom. Childhood bereavement brings with it a whole series of challenges for the bereaved child (and surviving parent) – challenges they will both deal with all their lives. If you are looking for support

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